1. The Leech -- title doesn't sound appealing at all huh? You're going to want to stay away from people who simply always take take take from you. Now I'm not saying, oh don't help your friends out, I'm saying don't constantly help someone who's not even putting energy into helping their self. If you find yourself constantly giving, not just materialistic things, you need to step back and ponder has these actions been reciprocated. If you find yourself investing so much and just feeling drained at the end, you my darling have encountered a leech and you need to pluck their ass off (excuse my language).
2. The 'Super honest cause I'm lowkey hating' friend -- have you ever told a friend a little white lie? Like that dress totally does not make you look fat or you look so much better than your ex's new girlfriend and it wasn't true. Don't stress! As a friend, that's what you're supposed to do (remember there's a difference between a little white lie and a downright lie). We always had I, myself, have had occasions where I'm standing in the mirror and I'm blurting out comments about what I need to improve in front of my friends. As a friend, I NEVER down my friend's for physical attributes, it's just wrong. There's nothing wrong with putting in honest comments for improvement. But if you're hearing, "Yeah you are fat as hell" over "Yeah you gained some weight but we can start hitting the gym" or "you ain't got no edges girl" over " your hair has been thinning, I know something you can use", PLEASE PLEASE give that hating hoe what she wants . . .a new friend!
3. Miss Switch It Up -- I've always thought it was great to be able to adapt to all environments, but it's not cool to be adapting to different friends. Be original and work hard on your brand! That's it and that's all. You should not be molding yourself to hang with different people. I'm sure everyone Jay Z hangs out with does not act like Jay Z. If you have a friend that acts like a different person around every group of friends she hangs with, please get them out your life. What you don't need is someone to switch it up especially when you really need consistency.
Well guys I had like 2 more types for you but my friends are rushing me for my attention. There will definitely be a part 2 in the future and I'm sure I will have met some other crazyyyy people to add to this list.
Good night my little glamourettes!
QOD: Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but rather how to dance in the rain.
